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However, never give your fixed opinion about any past experience. Make her feel comfortable, and try to find out reasons for her actions and reactions. After you ask questions about her, talk about yourself, how she feels about you?. You can also present some hypothetical scenarios, and ask her how would she feel if you react to some situations in a certain way, and if sometimes you don't have enough money to make both ends meet?. This will reflect if she is materialistic or really loves you.